Here I go again ranting about love ... the power that makes the world go round. The feeling that make hearts melt.. that makes you happy without a reason. I sometimes wonder, if love was personified to be in a human form, how beautiful would it be. But then why does it not bring happiness always always? Maybe because what we feel is love and we grow sad , angry ,jealous because of being in love ... that feeling is probably not love at all. Its adamancy, ego, selfishness. So that means if i claim to be in love and all that i felt was anger, jealous, lost then maybe it was not love at all. Maybe it was attraction, infatuation, crush or probably love but in a very nascent level. Maybe, love takes time to grow and the person grows along with it. I had heard people say that if you really love someone, you will be happy in his/her happiness. I read a quote somewhere when said that a little jealousy in a relationship is good. It feels good to know that someone is afraid of loosing you. However beautiful it might sound, love does not bring insecurities. If she loves you , she will never leave you for even the most handsomest, bestest man in the world. You will accept them with all their imperfections and flaws. It requires a lot of growing up to do to get that level of selflessness and maturity. And as i said you grow with love and love grows with you. Maybe thats why it is also said that when you love someone, you set him free. If he loves you, he will come back.
Love is only beautiful. If you see it turning ugly, understand that the "feeling" still needs time to be called love.
May there be lots of love in the world. :)
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