You know how I keep fantasizing about that one perfect guy? I have not met him as yet and sometimes I give up all the hope of meeting him. But I came across this article I had saved and I thought I will publish it here. Now I know that my blog is not public and actually nobody know about it. But say for some reason, somebody ...some guy stumbles upon this one, he should know this. Now only if I get treated this way aaaallll my life ... I will be the happiest person in the world throughout my life and so will be every girl who is actually treated this way.
•Grab her hand when you walk next to each other (don't make her grab yours). When standing, wrap your arms around her.
Girls have always been these strong beings who can be extremely independent. But sometimes we just get tired of being strong, of fighting and facing the world. When that "special person" holds our hands and wraps that protective arm around us, it feels so comforting and loved.
•Cuddle with her.
Girls love the little intimate things. Unlike guys, we DONOT have sex all the time in our minds. A sweet cuddle is more than amazing to feel good about you and the relationship.
•DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.
No, Never! We may get mad at you and get back at you by doing EXACTLY what you asked
us NOT to do. You know what, we ALWAYS ask you for your opinion when we need it and when we do not, it is not an ego hassle. It is just that we know what we want. We asked for BFs/Husbands and not dictators and tyrants. Also please DONOT expect us to follow you like little puppies when you never bother to ask about our opinions.
•Write little notes.
Writing is much more personal than e-mails. But more than anything else, such little gestures make us fall in love with you over and over again. :)
•Compliment her Honestly.
Yes do that! We love it !!
•When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
The feeling of strength, comfort, belonging and love everything keeps running inside our heads when we get those looong hugs
•Be super sweet to her.
Yes! Yes! Be sweet :)
•Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
Even if it just a 2 min call, let us know that we are the last thought on your minds before you drift away in sleep.
•Comfort her when she cries.
Very important. Dont walk away when we cry and DONOT scold. That can be done later. Just tell us things which we want to hear.
•Wipe away her tears
•Love her with all your heart.
Boys keep wondering what girls want. But we just want to be loved. We are not some alien creatures you know. We just have a little more vulnerability than you so just love us .... truly ... with all your heart.
•Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
Oh yes! Girls are big nautankis for sure. We may show that we dont like your silly flirting but in the heart of hearts we are smiling our brightest smiles and thanking God for bringing you in our lives.
•Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
Be gentleman and classy. Girls love classy gentlemen.
•Don't let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her!
If you let them do that, you are not protecting her honour and you dont deserve to be with her.
•DONT ever act diff in front of your friends than u r when it’s just u and her!!!!
She may not like the difference and take you as an impostor.
•Take her for a long walk at night!
and talk and make her laugh and be good to her.
•Always bring a blanket where ever you go outside when it’s cold to comfort her and hold her close
She will love it and love you :)
•NEVER LIE TO HER!!!!!! Because then she will think everything you ever said to her was a lie, even "I love you"
Especially never ever cheat on her.She may not leave you even if you lie to her if she loves you a lot. But heart in hearts she will never trust you. She will never believe a word you said even you are being truthful. and the worst part ...?? She will be broken from inside.
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